Appropriate Responses to Others' Warm Wishes

Have you ever heard the phrase 'Peace on you'? It's a greeting that has its roots in the 60s counterculture, which was a time of peace and love. However, in the context of modern social interactions, this greeting may come off as a thinly veiled judgment. It can be more appropriate to respond with a simple 'Thank you.'

Showing Sincere Gratitude

When you encounter someone giving you such a warm wish, it's essential to show sincere gratitude. Here's how you can do it:

Eye Contact and a Praying Position

Bow your head and make eye contact with the person. Place your hands in a praying position. You don't necessarily have to smile. While a smile can be natural, it's important to be sincere and show that you value their well-wish.

For instance, if you have just gone through a painful or traumatic experience, and someone greets you with 'Peace on you,' you can respond by bowing your head and saying, 'With you."

Christian Contexts

In a Christian setting, especially during prayer services or liturgies, the appropriate response to 'Salaam Aleikum' (Peace be upon you) or 'Shalom Aleichem' is 'Aleikum Hasalaam' or 'Aleichem Hashalom.' Translating, you would say 'With you the peace' or 'Peace be upon you, too.'

Another common phrase is 'And also with you,' which is used to acknowledge the shared sentiment of the church community.

Personal Reflection and Inner Peace

Reflecting on the appropriate response can be deeply personal. It's up to your heart to decide the most genuine and appropriate response. Cleansing your heart from blocked emotions and stress can help you respond authentically.

Start by cleaning up any negative emotions and stress in your heart. These emotional blockages can color your view of the world. By filling your heart with love, trust, and appreciation, you take control of your life and happiness.

To achieve inner peace, consider deep meditation. The Isha system is one method that can be effective. Deep meditation involves letting your thoughts pass by and giving your heart guidance on your life. This practice can help you develop intuition and find inner joy and peace.

Conclusion

Remember, the most appropriate response comes from your heart. It's a matter of personal reflection and inner transformation. By cleaning your heart, filling it with love, and focusing on your inner peace, you can respond authentically to warm wishes and show genuine gratitude.