Are Trans Women Attracted to Cisgender Women?

Yes, we can be.

As a transgender woman, I have had a committed relationship with a cisgender woman, and it was turbulent but we ultimately broke up on amicable terms. I find myself regularly attracted to cisgender women, but I often wonder why my transgender status matters in these matters. In truth, my attraction to cisgender women is entirely dependent on the individual ciswoman and their attitude towards me.

Sexual orientation is not impacted by being transgender. You can be straight, lesbian, bisexual, or anything in between, regardless of your gender identity. I happen to be bisexual, but that does not mean I cannot find cisgender women attractive. If a ciswoman is prejudiced against me, I may not consider her attractive. However, if she is open-minded, a stronger attraction may naturally develop.

Personal Attraction Factors

Being transgender does not impact sexual attraction in any absolute sense. However, personality, confidence, and appearance can play significant roles.

I find that a ciswoman's ability to take charge is a key factor for me. Additionally, a more feminine appearance, which I appreciate through medium to long hair, and a preference for dressing up and wearing makeup are also major draws for me.

Understanding Attraction

Attraction is a highly personal and individual experience, not a matter of rigid categories. Some cisgender women may be exclusively attracted to cisgender women, while others may be attracted to transgender women. Similarly, some transgender women may be exclusively attracted to cisgender women, while others may be exclusively attracted to other transgender women.

It's important to remember that attraction, like many things in life, is fluid and subjective. Prejudices about one’s gender identity should not be the sole determinant of attraction. Ultimately, every individual has the right to explore and express their romantic and sexual preferences as they choose.

Conclusion

In conclusion, yes, as a transgender woman, I can be attracted to cisgender women. However, my attraction is based on individual characteristics, personality, and other personal preferences. It's crucial for both individuals to communicate openly and honestly to understand and respect each other's desires and boundaries.