Are Europeans Really More Content?

The idea of comparing happiness between Europeans and Americans frequently arises, but it's a complex topic with multiple definitions and interpretations. The concept of happiness, which doesn't always translate well across languages and cultures, has various subtypes and nuances.

Subtypes of Happiness

Two main subtypes of happiness can be loosely categorized as joy and contentment. Joie de vivre (joy) and contentude (contentment) are traits characteristic of different cultural expressions.

According to research, joy is generally considered as a more fleeting and intense emotion, often triggered by unexpected or surprising events, while contentment is a deeper, longer-lasting emotion that can be sustained over time. This distinguishes these two emotions in the way they impact individuals and societies.

Cultural Expressions of Joy and Contentment

The stereotype of American culture is often portrayed with the boom-bust ups-and-downs, which lends more to joy than to contentment. Joy is more in the moment, such as winning a big bet, whereas contentment is about long-term satisfaction, such as liking one's house. On the other hand, much of Europe tends to have a more stable and consistent lifestyle that can lead to a greater sense of contentment despite momentary joys being less impactful.

For instance, a cheap, short flight to Italy might not feel as monumental as it would in an American context. This consistent level of satisfaction can foster a greater sense of contentment, as people appreciate the everyday aspects of their lives more.

Cultural Misunderstandings and Misinterpretation

It’s important to note that cultures and generations express happiness differently, which can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. In American culture, happy people tend to smile and talk a lot, waving to strangers and acknowledging their existence is seen as a sign of social well-being. Similarly, in Canada, Australia, and Ireland, this behavior is also associated with contentment.

However, these behaviors can be misinterpreted in other cultures. For example, in some European cultures, excessive smiling and talking can be seen as eccentric or mocking. The extreme respect for privacy in these cultures is often misinterpreted as shyness or unfriendliness. In English-speaking countries, this behavior is perceived as rude, which is why people in these cultures tend to engage in social interactions less often.

Factors Influencing Happiness: Public Spaces and Generational Differences

Public spaces play a significant role in fostering happiness, particularly among youth. Europe excels in creating user-friendly public spaces, which can contribute significantly to the happiness of young people. However, this gift is often not fully utilized. Even though Europe has beautiful and vibrant public spaces, some Europeans can fail to appreciate and use them, leading to wasted potential.

For middle-aged adults, the situation varies. Many Europeans seem to be less happy due to the static and predictable nature of life in much of Europe. The same could be said for Americans. Despite the perception of American suburbia being the only boring thing, Europe has its own version of this stagnation.

In terms of older adults, both Europeans and Americans seem to be equally happy. This could be due to learned expectation and a lack of iPhones, which can limit human emotional and social development. Public spaces that are beautiful and lively can act as a powerful countermeasure to the mental and social deterioration brought about by modern technology.

Does Money Create Happiness?

The relationship between wealth and happiness is complex and debatable. While a severe lack of money can undoubtedly create unhappiness, I have seen poor Americans and Europeans who struck me as happier and better people than their wealthier counterparts. Rich people sometimes face greater mental health issues, while poor working-class individuals can find joy and fulfillment in simpler pleasures.

The European safety net, which is often seen as a security factor, can contribute to lower anxiety. However, anxiety exists in both Europe and America, and people can be happy in different parts of both continents. This suggests that while the safety net can be beneficial, it doesn’t guarantee happiness.

The Role of Governments in Promoting Happiness

Happiness is a multifaceted topic, and while governments can play a role, they cannot create it. The best they can do is help. The U.S. government has often become an obstacle to this help, but there are certainly individuals within the government who want to contribute positively.