Do People with ASPD Dislike the Terms Psychopath and Sociopath?

When diagnosed with Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASPD), many individuals find themselves labeled as sociopaths or psychopaths. However, this often comes with a significant amount of negativity and misunderstanding. In my own experience, I've found that those who use these terms tend to think they know everything and are consumed by a sense of their own superiority. This article explores why these terms are often disliked, and the nuances within these diagnoses.

Dislike and Prejudice

When someone calls me a sociopath or a psychopath, it comes with a sense of judgment and a belief that they understand me on a level they think is superior to mine. This attitude is not only condescending but also counterproductive. It stems from people who feel they possess the right to judge others and talk to them in a manner they find acceptable. This attitude can be deeply hurtful and disrespectful.

Distinction and Misunderstanding

The labels of sociopath and psychopath do have their own distinct characteristics, but often these labels are intermingled and lack nuance. In my experience, sociopaths and psychopaths can exhibit behaviors that blend the traits of each other. The psychiatric stereotype of a sociopath as being “emotional and impulsive” and a psychopath as being “cold and manipulative” can be misleading. Both terms are so mixed up that they no longer have any clear meaning to me. I have chosen to identify as a sociopath, even though I have psychopathic traits and an ASPD diagnosis, due to trauma. I am not an impulsive, uncontrolled person.

Wanting Acceptance and Superiority

Psychopaths and sociopaths often desire acceptance and idolization from society. They yearn to be viewed as special and superior. However, this is a misconception. Individuals with these disorders are not well-adapted to social norms and often struggle with empathy and accountability. They are not special or superior; their actions and behaviors indicate a lack of concern for the well-being of others.

Usage of Terms in Context

The terms "psychopath" and "sociopath" should be used with care and in an informed context. The usage of these words without such context can be cringe-worthy. I do not mind the use of the term "sociopath" if used in a formal context that acknowledges the presence of ASPD. For example, a single paragraph post might reference the term ASPD formally, while a longer post might use a variety of terms like "antisocial," "sociopath," "severe PD," "ASPD," and "pwASPD." This variety improves the writing quality and acknowledges the complexity of these diagnoses.

Understanding ASPD, Psychopathy, and Sociopathy

Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) is characterized by a pervasive pattern of disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Key symptoms include a lack of concern for the feelings and needs of others, repeated lying or manipulating others for personal gain, acting on impulses without considering the consequences, a tendency towards angry or violent behavior, engaging in reckless or dangerous behaviors, failure to fulfill obligations and responsibilities, and a lack of remorse for harming others or violating social norms.

Conclusion

While the terms "psychopath" and "sociopath" can be misunderstood and quite loaded with negative connotations, they are necessary for understanding the nature of ASPD. By using these terms in an informed and sensitive context, we can improve our understanding and respect towards individuals with these diagnoses. It's crucial to remember that these individuals are complex and deserve empathy and understanding rather than judgment and prejudice.