Do Trans People Regret Their Surgery?

The term ldquo;trans peoplerdquo; is somewhat broad, encompassing individuals who have undergone a range of procedures, from gender-affirming hormone therapy and cosmetic surgeries to a full sexual reassignment surgery (SRS). As someone deeply familiar with these transitions, I can confidently say that while regret is a valid concern, it is far less common than one might think.

Regret after SRS

One case stands out—specifically a male-to-female (MTF) individual who felt great regret after her SRS. This case underscores the significant personal impacts that such procedures can have, including career and social ramifications. However, the overwhelming majority of individuals who undergo SRS are very happy with their decision. This satisfaction is a reflection of the rigorous and lengthy process candidates must undergo before proceeding with the surgery. This process provides ample time for reconsideration and ensures that those who are not suitable or have reservations are unlikely to proceed.

Personal Journey: Transition and Dysphoria

From a personal perspective, the transition through SRS has been profoundly transformative. Ever since childhood, I have harbored a deep-seated dysphoria related to my genitalia. Years of struggle eventually led to a vulvoplasty. The psychological weight lifted off my shoulders was immense. It was a relief after more than 50 years living with something that did not feel right. There has been no regret, nor even a fleeting wish to return to the old self. Instead, I feel a profound sense of levelling up and connection to others.

Personal Experiences and Insights

Another individual I know had their breasts removed for a gender-confirmation surgery. This was done technically as a reduction, but with the intention of ensuring it could be done at the age of 15, post-emancipation. The individual was not only fine with the procedure but felt amazingly great afterward. The desire for a penis was a natural progression, and the experience was a positive one. The surgery not only validated the individual's gender identity but also provided immediate psychological benefits, fostering a sense of belonging within a community.

For yet another individual, a vaginoplasty in November 2023, brought about a feeling of tremendous relief and happiness. There has been no moment of regret in the eight months since the surgery. The psychological and social benefits were profound, leading to a strong sense of connection and an overwhelming sense of gender euphoria, especially when spoken to by female healthcare professionals. The individual prefers to view the surgery more as a confirmation or validation of their gender identity rather than a reassignment.

Relevance and Appreciation

It is essential to understand that the surgery is a personal milestone for those who face profound dysphoria. For some transgender individuals, the surgery is more akin to a gift provided to oneself, rather than a medical reassignment. This perspective can help explain why the regret rate is exceptionally low for this particular surgery. Understanding and respecting the motivations behind these decisions can enhance appreciation for the transformative impact these procedures have on individuals' lives.

Conclusion

While regret is a valid concern, the overwhelming majority of individuals who undergo sexual reassignment surgeries are happy with their decision. The rigorous process involved in obtaining clearance for these surgeries ensures that individuals are mentally and physically prepared. Personal experiences and insights from those who have gone through the process underscore the profound psychological and emotional benefits of such surgeries for individuals facing significant dysphoria.