Impressive Restraint in Healthcare: Stories of Nurses and Medical Professionals

Throughout my life, I have encountered numerous instances of remarkable restraint displayed by healthcare professionals, especially nurses, in their daily interactions with challenging patients. Here are three memorable stories that stand out, illustrating the dedication and resilience of these unsung heroes.

1. A Determined Nurse and a Fussy Child

One weekend, my parents were supposed to go out in the evening but debated about changing their plans because their younger brother, around 4 years old, was running a fever. Despite the cold, they decided to attend a nearby party and hire a nurse for babysitting. My brother was not feeling better but also wasn't worsening, allowing them to proceed with their plans.

That evening, I witnessed an extraordinary scene in my brother's room. The nurse was attempting to give him an anal suppository, but he was reluctant and resisted fiercely, lying flat against the wall with his arms spread out, mimicking a stubborn starfish. His protests were a cacophony of 'No! No! No! NO! NO! NO!' as he vehemently opposed the procedure.

The nurse displayed incredible restraint, balancing between exasperation and finding the strength to ultimately tackle and administer the medication. This act of restraint showcased not only her dedication but also her ability to remain calm and focused in challenging situations.

2. A Convicted Pedophile in the Hospital

In a hospital setting, one faces a range of patients with varying difficulties. One such case I recall involved a convicted pedophile. Although his actions were unacceptable and his behavior was deplorable, the challenge lay in ensuring his safe and humane treatment. He would throw feces across the room, and unlike some situations, there was no attempt to eliminate him prior to discharge.

The situation required exceptional patience and restraint from all those involved. A sense of professional integrity and respect for human dignity was maintained, demonstrating that in healthcare, it is possible to treat even the most challenging patients with dignity and care.

3. A Drunk Man in a Paramedic Incident

During my time as a traffic policeman in the early 1960s, I encountered a drunk man with a bloody facial injury. He was agitated and aggressive, threatening to fight and possibly even attack me. In this tense situation, an Irish nun appeared and helped calm the man by using her familiarity and local knowledge to get him into an ambulance.

However, once inside the ambulance, the man's behavior turned hostile again, trying to fight the medical attendant. The ambulance crew and I were in danger, and I radioed for assistance. The situation spiraled until a hospital matron arrived. With a strong Irish voice, she commanded the man to freeze and asked with a mix of defiance and authority, 'Are you goin wit dem?!" The man immediately ceased his aggressive behavior, effectively resolving the chaos.

Conclusion

These stories underscore the importance of restraint in healthcare, particularly in nursing. Nurses and medical professionals often face challenging situations where they must remain calm, composed, and focused. Their ability to handle difficult patients with dignity and respect is a testament to their professionalism and dedication to the care of their patients.

Whether it's a fussy child, a convicted criminal, or an agitated drunk, healthcare professionals must exhibit remarkable restraint and composure. These instances provide valuable lessons in how to manage challenging situations compassionately and effectively, making them invaluable members of the healthcare team.