Resuscitation Ethics: A Personal Journey and Reflection

Would you still try to save someone who has instructed a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order? This is a complex and often emotional question, but it is one that I have lived through and can offer a deeply personal perspective on.

The Importance of a DNR Order

Years ago, before I knew God and faced the grueling challenges of a 30-year battle with various life-threatening conditions, including near-death experiences due to surgery, I was resolute in my determination to be resuscitated at all costs if my life was in danger. However, the reality of such a directive can be hauntingly unpredictable, especially in cases where the decision could prevent vital relief from suffering.

A Personal Tragic Experience

The health journey of my loved one, who was hit by a drunk driver at a young age, profoundly affected me. Witnessing her pain and suffering on life support, I was blinded by the desire to save her despite her deteriorating condition. The medical team's efforts, while well-intentioned, were emotionally wrenching for her and inflicted undue mental torment by keeping her mind alert.

Ethical Dilemmas in End-of-Life Care

These experiences have led to a profound re-evaluation of personal beliefs and ethical standpoints. As a Christian, I understand the sanctity of life. Yet, this does not automatically equate to a relentless fight against death. The anguish of my own near-death experience during a hospital stay pushed me to document my wishes, underscoring the immense importance of clear directives in these situations.

My Near-Death Experience and Reflection

During my brief period of medically induced death, I was fighting against being resuscitated, even though it would have been in my best interest. This terrifying episode forced me to confront my previous stance on resuscitation and consider the impact of such decisions on both the patient and their loved ones.

After egressing my body and re-entering on my own, I faced the harrowing sensation of dry drowning, which underscored the importance of considering the patient's quality of life and personal desires. This experience taught me the weight of DNR orders and the profound impact they can have on both the patient and their caregivers.

Respecting Personal Wishes

Ultimately, I believe that it is essential to honor a person's wishes, whatever they may be. Respecting a DNR order is not just about adhering to a directive but also about respecting the person's right to choose their own path and prevent prolonged suffering.

Conclusion

Would I try to save someone who has a DNR order? The answer is yes, I would respect that person's wishes and honor their decision. However, it is crucial to remember that these decisions are deeply personal and should be made with thorough understanding and consideration.

Through my own journey and reflections, I hope to offer a voice to those tackling similar ethical dilemmas and to emphasize the importance of clear communication and respect for personal choices in end-of-life situations.