Switching Healthcare Providers: When to Change Your Obstetrician or Gynecologist

For many expectant mothers, the nine months leading up to the delivery are filled with anticipation and excitement, yet also some level of anxiety, particularly when it comes to trusting their healthcare provider. If you find yourself in a situation where you need to switch doctors or midwives, it can feel like a daunting task. However, the process of changing your care provider is generally straightforward and should align with your comfort and trust levels.

1. The Process of Finding a New Healthcare Provider

Call the New Office: Once you have a list of potential healthcare providers, make a call to their office to check if they accept your insurance and to schedule an appointment. Research Recommendations: Before you make a call, do thorough research to narrow down your options. Ask friends, family members, and your local birth network for recommendations. Being specific about your needs can help you find the right fit.

2. The Role of an Obstetrician and Gynecologist

In my experience, OBGYNs (obstetricians and gynecologists) take full care of the patient throughout her pregnancy. They refer to specialists for specific issues, such as heart conditions or pre-existing conditions. In my personal experience, I have never known an OBGYN to refer a patient to a primary care physician (PCP) for minor issues. Upon assuming care, the OBGYN essentially becomes the PCP for the patient during her pregnancy.

I fully understand that in this country, it may seem unusual for a patient to be referred to a PCP for minor issues. However, when it comes to pregnancies, you need a provider who can guide and support you throughout every stage of your pregnancy, from preconception to postpartum care. This is why it is crucial for the OBGYN to maintain open communication with the patient.

3. The Importance of Communication

Your relationship with your OBGYN during pregnancy is unique and based on trust. You are placing your life and your baby's health and safety in the hands of this person. You expect them to offer guidance and support that will promote the health and safety of your child, which is one of the most precious experiences in life. For your OBGYN to ignore your concerns and pass you off to someone else is simply unacceptable.

During pregnancy, open and honest communication is key. You have the right to ask questions and receive clear, concise answers. If your current provider does not have the time or willingness to communicate with you effectively, it is not only a cause for concern but a red flag. Even if I do not disagree with what your current OBGYN told you, the lack of communication and support is concerning.

4. Seeking a Provider with Better Relationship Skills

While I believe that both you and your baby will be fine, it is still advisable to find a healthcare provider who can better meet your needs and establish a more trusting relationship. A healthcare provider who can listen to your concerns, answer your questions, and offer support and guidance is invaluable during the pregnancy journey.

By changing to a provider who can offer the right level of support and communication, you will be setting yourself and your baby up for the best possible outcome. Trust is a critical component in the doctor-patient relationship, especially during such an important and transformative time.

Best wishes to you and your baby as you navigate this exciting and challenging journey.