The Accurate Reflection of My Personality: Insights from the MBTI

Lately, I have found myself exploring the intricate workings of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), particularly the INTP type. Many people have voiced their opinions and experiences in forums such as Quora, but to truly understand one's personality type, it requires a deeper dive into research and personal reflection.

Understanding MBTI through Research

There is over 50 years of research on the MBTI, and much of this research supports its reliability and validity. Over the years, I have used the MBTI as part of a Career Planning workshop and have interacted with literally hundreds of individuals. For the most part, the results have been extremely accurate, providing insights that are both enlightening and motivational.

My INTP Journey

Upon first taking the test, I was given the INTP type based on both general descriptions and descriptions of cognitive functions. However, there were a couple of discrepancies that caught my attention: the description of INTP as "smart and emotionless" did not resonate with me. This inaccuracy was so upsetting that I decided to retake the test to further validate my type.

During my first attempt, I received the ISTP type. While the descriptions of the sensing, gut feeling, and emotionless aspects did not fit, the rest of the description aligned with my personality. The INTP type resonated more deeply, but the "smart and emotionless" part proved to be a significant point of contention. Initially, I struggled to understand what being "detached from emotions" meant, as I believed it implied a complete disconnection from feelings, similar to how ENTJs might remain driven even when in emotional distress.

Re-evaluating Emotional Detachment

Upon further reflection and introspection, I now understand what being "detached from emotions" really means. The term suggests a disconnection from emotions-driven decision-making during intense or grip states. Yet, most of the time, emotional decision-making is a natural process for me. When I am with friends or family, I consider their feelings and often let them make decisions on less important matters, noting that I am comfortable if these decisions align with my own preferences. However, when it comes to important or emotional issues, I can become insensitive and emotionally detached, reflecting the Fe functions of INTPs. This realization has been both enlightening and challenging, but it has helped me to better understand my emotional processes.

MBTI and Personality: An Eye-Opener

For most individuals, the MBTI is an eye-opener, providing a clearer picture of their strengths and weaknesses. It can be a powerful tool for personal growth and better understanding of oneself and others. In my interactions with hundreds of individuals, people often discover new facets of their personalities that they were previously unaware of. The INTP type, in particular, has shown me that I spend the majority of my time in my head, analyzing and theorizing. My curiosity is driven by an unquenchable desire to understand the underlying logic behind things.

Other INTP Traits

Other INTPs who rely heavily on Ti (Thinking) are more straightforward and less in touch with their emotions, while those with overactive Ne (Intuition) are more flexible and more emotional. Understanding my own traits has deepened my passion for the MBTI as a framework that helps me understand both myself and others more accurately. This introspective journey has been a valuable experience, even if some aspects remain challenging.

Conclusion

While the MBTI has accurately described my personality, it is important to note that no one is perfect. Even INTPs, who are often characterized as logical and detached, have emotions. The key is to understand and nurture these emotions, rather than repressing them. INTPs are generally slower to respond to emotional situations, but we do have emotions, albeit deeply buried. By embracing all aspects of our personality, including the emotional ones, we can achieve a better understanding of ourselves and our interactions with others.

Ultimately, the MBTI has been transformative, providing me with a clearer view of my strengths and weaknesses. It has helped me to grow, to reflect, and to understand the intricate workings of my mind. While it is a tool, it is also a mirror that reflects the complex and fascinating aspects of our inner world.