The Ideal Men in My Eyes: Physical and Personal Attributes

When it comes to the ideal men in my eyes, there are certain physical attributes and personal qualities that stand out. I’ve often been drawn to slender, feminine, and polished black men, much like pretty twinks with long silk hair and a smooth, beautiful body. However, I'm not entirely picky when it comes to dating. The primary focus is on a person's character, wit, and intelligence. If someone can be kind, funny, or smart, I'm quite willing to overlook their physical appearance if necessary.

Physical Attributes

Chris Hemsworth is often considered a model of perfection, but, for me, the body is not the be-all and end-all. Of course, someone with a chiseled physique or more robust limbs can be appealing, but it’s not the defining characteristic. What matters far more is the individual's overall health and self-care routine. Broad shoulders are a must, and a well-groomed and healthy demeanor add to the charm. Even if they’re not chiseled bodybuilders, if they're good at the gym, they might even help me out.

Persona and Personal Qualities

When it comes to personality, there are specific individuals who stand out. Lee, for instance, is highly respected. His physique features chiseled abs and a statuesque height, which is reflective of his devoted personality. Moreover, Baekhyun's silliness and cuteness, along with Taehyun's hotness, add vibrant energy and charm. Jackson's entire demeanor is captivating.

Additional Criteria

While these factors are important, I have certain additional criteria as well. Firstly, I’m not attracted to overweight men; however, I am open to dating someone who is not excessively fit, as long as they look after themselves well. It's important they maintain a healthy life but don't necessarily need to be ripped at all times. A broad shoulder and a healthy, well-groomed appearance are critical, even if they are not at the peak of fitness. Second, height plays a significant role in my attraction. Being tall, I am not interested in shorter men, as I need a man who stands a bit taller than me. This preference can be frustrating but is a personal standard I hold for myself.

Lastly, a significant and functional bulge in the wallet is also a plus. Not to mention, it's great if someone has a partner they enjoy and someone who is capable of making them laugh. Life is often challenging, and finding someone who can bring joy and laughter into my life is irreplaceable.

Summarizing, what really counts to me is a balanced combination of attractive physical attributes and grounding personal qualities. While the body is important, it's the heart and soul that truly define the idea of the ideal man in my eyes.