Why Do Some People Dislike Pastors?

As a pastor with over 10 years of preaching experience, including in rest homes, I've encountered a diverse array of individuals. You might expect those near the end of their lives to reflect on their past and consider a spiritual perspective, but that's not always the case. Despite these challenges, I remain committed to spreading the truth, particularly the gospel.

Why I Do This Despite Challenges

I have preached in rest homes for more than a decade, considering each soul an opportunity to minister. Although I am often dissatisfied with the effectiveness of my preaching, I find profound fulfillment in the mission. People come from all persuasions, and it's clear that not everyone reviews their life and options before departing this world.

The gospel is free, but the act of preaching it is not. I do not receive monetary compensation for my work, a choice I stand by. My aim is to continue my ministry for five more years, at the age of 86, with over 200 more sermons to complete in the LIFE OF CHRIST series. I maintain a Facebook page for sharing sermons, and I aspire to record more sermons for wider accessibility via cell phones or streaming technology.

Jesus Forewarned of Hatred for the Gospel

Even as an experienced pastor, I acknowledge the uncomfortable reality that some people dislike pastors. According to Jesus, worldly societies have long harbored hatred toward the gospel and those who preach it. While every Christian church attendee may not practice true faith, some have ulterior motives that align with reasons why certain pastors might be disliked. Some may be as adamantly opposed to the gospel as atheists or people of other religions.

Examples of Unfit Pastors

Unfortunately, there are many examples of pastors who, while well-publicized, cause significant harm through their actions. From fraudulent media ministers exploiting poor widows, to controlling, ego-driven narcissists, to zealous activists with political or social agendas, there are many cases where pastoral leadership falls drastically short. These individuals not only hurt people but also tarnish the reputation of the faith community. Such wrongful conduct can lead to despair, especially for those who have suffered under leaders who have gone astray.

Some passages from the Bible specifically address such leaders, such as Matthew 23. In this chapter, Jesus delivers a critique of the scribes and Pharisees, denouncing them as hypocrites for preventing people from entering the Kingdom of Heaven. These leaders' greed and hypocrisy are highlighted. The Bible also warns believers to be wary of such figures.

Personal Experiences and What Causes Dislike

My interactions with such leaders have been profoundly painful and often harmful. It is not easy to shake these experiences and remain open to others. However, an important lesson is that it's not merely about personal bias or dislike of Jesus that undermines pastoral relationships. Personal beliefs, preconceived biases, and pre-existing prejudices against pastors can also contribute to this disconnect.

At the end of the day, there are numerous reasons why someone might dislike a pastor. But we are all regular people, no different from one another. When pastors strive to reflect Jesus' love and care for people, many of these obstacles can diminish or disappear. While it's rare, I can say with honesty that through heartfelt conversations, many may not become lifelong friends or even convert to Christianity but can find meaningful and engaging interactions. The heart of the matter is not the profession but the heart and intentions of the individual in that role.